intimations (inspired by zadie smith)
debts & lessons
- mom - for defining me by contrast. being the white space in which i found my colors.
- grandpa - how to really tell a good story (full of pregnant pauses and rhetorical questions). how to meet life with an impish grin and an easy gait.
- that asshole - the importance of setting boundaries
- bebe - what refuge and safety truly feels like
- joyful - how to be unapologetic
- aunty cherry - men are insignificant, but they do make life more fun